The task of planning a wedding

Today’s youngsters don’t mind spending a fortune to look their best on their D Day. We explore the trend

Looks like it’s the marriage season again – marriage halls are booked, florists have their calendars full, card makers are working overtime to meet the growing demand. Every third person you meet is either getting engaged or married. However, the whole affair of planning a wedding is one helluva task!

Designers are being roped in to customize clothes for the bride and the groom, wedding planners are engaged to make sure everything is in order, beauticians and a host of other teams are put together a wedding that resembles a movie scene. Only thing that remains unchanged are the marriage rituals. Vincy Francis, who recently got married, says, “I had friends running around for the floral arrangements, while my family made sure the traditional ceremonies were not missed. I wanted to have the best of both – a perfect mix of traditional wedding with a modern touch. This way, I would have no regrets later.We had to do a lot of coaxing, but managed it successfully.”

The cliche “organize a wedding and you have achieved everything in life’ holds true even now. Extensive shopping – be it jewellery, clothes, accessories and the like -everything is done in the metros as they have a lot of options to offer. Sujitha Subramaniam, who is tying the knot in a month’s time, says, “I had a lot of shopping to do, but I managed to finish it in a span of two weeks and I am almost ready. We bought saris and jewellery from Chennai. Best thing was there was so much variety on offer and we could also bargain.

Designer suits were all priced at affordable rates though it was a metropolitan city, the art is in knowing where to shop.” From inviting guests and following protocol to a tee, everything has changed with times, says Roopa Sangeetha, an software professional who claims she spent a fortune on beauty packages. Looking fabulous on the D-day is something that has been in vogue since time immemorial, but what has changed is the money that goes into the billion dollar industry. While there are special bridal packages, men too spend a bomb on beautifying themselves. With the bride, groom and their families wanting to look their best on the special day, prices have skyrocketed. “My mother wanted one of my relatives to do the dressing up and makeup for me. However, since it’s a one-time affair, I hired professionals as a image makeover will work as a good morale booster. I also went for a lot of mock makeup sessions to get the perfect look on the D-day.”

Meanwhile, the men too have become a conscious lot and don’t mind spending hefty amounts to look their best on the Wedding day. They invest on grooming themselves.

“My friend used to be lousy at dressing, he cared a damn about his clothes or his looks. But his girl made sure he was also decked up to match her. It is actually good to be conscious of your looks once in a while and especially so on your wedding day. Money of course matters, but what matters in the end is how good you looked and how memorable it was for you.” tells, Sam Raj an engineering professional.

Miami Marlins video: Catcher Brett Hayes, mom stun wedding guests with dancing … – Sun

Upon returning from his honeymoon, Marlins catcher Brett Hayes had about 30 text messages, none of which offered congratulations on his nuptials. They were all about a You Tube video of Hayes’ Nov. 5 wedding reception.

With the help of sisters Bailey, Megan and Alex, Hayes took a non-traditional approach to a traditional reception component: the groom’s dance with his mother.

“She was adamant about not spinning in a circle on the dance floor doing a slow dance,” Hayes said.

Hayes came across the viral You Tube video on the evolution of dance, where a guy dances to snippets of popular songs from past to present. He employed that theme with his mother.

The dance starts out normal enough with Hayes and his mom, Kristen, dancing to “Let’s Hear it For the Boy.” A record screetching sound effect interrupts the song, cuing mother and son to don sunglasses and get to work. The best part about it was no one besides Hayes, his mother and sisters were in on the plan.

“The practice was horrible,” Hayes said. “We absolutely nailed it in the wedding. I go on my honeymoon and come back to find the video has 5,000 hits on You Tube thanks to Bailey’s friend, Jessie, who decided to upload it. My mom acted embarrassed, but I think she enjoyed it.

“I was pretty nervous from about 10 am on knowing I had to do this dance. I’m not much for dancing, but anything for mom.”

Will Angelina Jolie’s wedding dress be designed by Versace

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Katie Nicholl

16:59 EST, 21 April 2012

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16:59 EST, 21 April 2012

Newly-engaged Angelina Jolie is likely to plump for a Versace wedding gown.

The 36-year-old actress is expected to marry Brad Pitt in France later this year.

And the Italian fashion house is the early frontrunner to design her frock for the big day.

Causing a stir: Angelina turned heads in this Versace gown that was slashed to the thigh, which she wore to February's Oscar's

Causing a stir: Angelina turned heads in this Versace gown that was slashed to the thigh, which she wore to February’s Oscar’s

Angie caused a sensation at the Oscars in February when she turned up wearing a Versace gown that was slashed to the thigh.

Now she has hired her favourite Hollywood stylist, Jen Rade, to help find a wedding dress with the same  wow factor.

‘Versace is top of the list,’ I’m told.

Bitter Pill: Law cannot perform on stage this spring because he is filming Steven Soderbergh's new thriller

Bitter Pill: Law cannot perform on stage this spring because he is filming Steven Soderbergh’s new thriller

Could actress Ruth Wilson’s triumph at the Olivier Awards for her role in Anna Christie lead to a reunion with Jude Law in a Broadway version of the play?

That’s certainly the desire of the producers, who hope that a New York run could lead to a double triumph for the show.

However, sources close to Law say he cannot perform on stage this spring because he is filming Steven Soderbergh’s new thriller The Bitter Pill.

A source adds: ‘Taking Anna Christie to Broadway has been discussed but never firmed up. It has not gone away as an idea but it can’t happen imminently.’

Both Law, who won an award when he starred in Hamlet on Broadway three years ago, and Wilson are keen for the project to materialise. In the Eugene O’Neill play, Law plays a barge stoker who embarks on an affair with Wilson’s character.

The romance appears to have spilled over into real life – my spies recently spotted the couple enjoying a night out at the Groucho Club in London.

Survivor: Dame Maggie Smith's character will not be killed off

Survivor: Dame Maggie Smith’s character will not be killed off

After fears that Downton Abbey star Dame Maggie Smith is to be written out of the next series of the hit ITV drama, fans can breathe a sigh of relief.

As I reported last week, Dame Maggie will star as the Dowager Countess in every episode of the third series and a Christmas special, but she will not be killed off.

Carnival Films, which  co-produces Downton, insists the veteran actress will be in it for as long as she wants  to continue.

‘There’s no truth Maggie is leaving. Series three is filming with her,’ says a spokesman. Devotees will be delighted and now await news about series four.

Agyness Deyn is turning her back on modelling to concentrate on her Hollywood career.

The  29-year-old has set up home in LA’s trendy Los Feliz district and a pal says: ‘Agyness says her modelling days are over.

‘She is thinking of taking up directing and has been writing a screenplay with a chum that she plans to take to studios this year.’

Agyness also has a leading role in a film called Pusher, which comes out in the autumn.

British Actress Carey Mulligan Plans Secret Wedding This Weekend

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Carey Mulligan is set to wed her rocker beau, Marcus Mumford, in a secret ceremony this weekend, according to U.K. reports.
 
The couple has been dating since early last year, and got engaged after just a few months.
 
The closely-guarded pair was said to be planning a small, top secret ceremony for family and friends in the English countryside, and according to Britain’s The Sun, the big day will take place on Saturday.
 
The publication reports that superstar Adele will sing at the event after the Mumford Sons frontman reached out to her.
 
A source tells the newspaper, “Carey and Marcus are both huge fans of Adele and there will be millions of couples jealous that she is singing for them.
 
“Adele has always wanted to work with Mumford Sons so when Marcus asked her to play at his wedding she said yes.”

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The Wedding by Irene Wanjiru, one of East Africa’s best known sculptors. 

In Summary

Most sculptors draw well, some superbly.

They draw for two main reasons — to develop ideas for their sculptures, or as a way of relaxing, perhaps letting off steam after hammering at unyielding rock all day.


These latter works often lead a life of their own, distinct from the sculptures, creating new and fruitful oeuvres.


Michelangelo… well, no words from me can add anything to the majesty of his exploratory figure drawings.


In the 20th century Rodin and Gaudier-Brzeska made incisive crayon and wash drawings, Henry Moore used a ballpoint pen to create exquisite aides memoires of the sheep that grazed around his studio, while Barbara Hepworth became famous for her pictures of surgeons in bas-relief.


And Jacob Epstein, frequently reviled for the brutal sexuality of some of his sculptures, drew almost ceaselessly, often from the nude.


So, I felt fortunate recently to come across a cache of drawings by Irene Wanjiru, one of East Africa’s best known sculptors.


They were made using a technique called frottage, literally “rubbing.” It involves placing the paper on a rough surface and dragging charcoal or crayon over it to produce random patterns, which then trigger images released from the subconscious.


The technique was popularised in the 1920s by the German Max Ernst, a leading Surrealist painter. And it is a neat trick.


The hardest thing for any artist to confront is a blank sheet of paper. Frottage gives a head start — marks on the surface from which, like faces in the fire, something can grow.


Wanjiru’s drawings are quite separate from her sculptures, which tend towards an energetic realism. Her drawings float like dreams across the paper.


The one shown here, called The Wedding, is a case in point.


The lines made by frottage create a matrix onto which a series of figures, part real, part fantasy, has been woven into a densely textured design that continues to reward scrutiny.


This design is supported, almost heraldically, by two figures. At bottom left is a seated man with a long, lugubrious face (perhaps the bride’s father) while bottom right a woman clasps the waist of a snake-like creature bent double and arcing towards the centre.


They contain a composition that flows in two circles, making a figure of eight.


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    Desperately Seeking Susan Madonna Was The Best; Now I Get To Be Her For A …

    When I got an invitation a couple weeks ago from a friend who’s having a Madonna themed birthday party, I initially cringed. Madonna? Really? What the hell am I supposed to wear? While these thoughts went through my head, by the time I reached the end of the invitation the answer was clear:  all guests are to dress as their favorite Madonna.

    Considering she’s been around for coming up on 30 years and has been kind enough to reinvent herself pretty much every six months or so, there are actually many Madonna styles from which to choose. I first considered Madonna in a wedding dress rolling around on the stage at the 1984 MTV Video Music Awards when she practically fucked the stage while the audience and media gasped. My reason for this first choice was because any reason to buy a wedding dress sounds like a good idea to me.

    I then tossed around the Jean Paul Gaultier cone-bustier era of the Blond Ambition World Tour, next I contemplated the modest housewife-looking phase as so beautifully portrayed in the video for “Live to Tell,” and lastly, thanks to something called cable, I found the Madonna that I will be dressing up as for this upcoming birthday. How it is that I could have forgotten the brilliance and the gorgeous 1980′s apparel of Desperately Seeking Susan is obviously both sinful and embarrassing. How badly did I want to be Susan, Madonna’s character in that movie when I first saw it? A lot. Thanks to that 1985 film, I fell in love with Aiden Quinn, I still flip the hand-driers in the bathroom upward like she did in the movie, and to this day I firmly believe “Get Into the Groove” is one of the greatest songs in the history of the world. Wow. I guess I really am an 80′s kid no matter how hard I try to fight it.

    So since it’s Saturday and the weekends were made for compiling lists, let’s go over all the things I’ll be buying this week to perfect my look for the party. I already have my red lipstick, I just need everything else. If I’m missing something, throw in your two cents! As you know, we really want you to get on the comment wagon more, ladies!


    Eighth annual cheap chic weddings toilet paper wedding dress contest rolls out

    Here’s how to enter: Plan your design; alone or with a friend, grab some Charmin toilet paper, tape and/or glue and/or needle and thread (that’s all you can use)!

    Next, make the dress on your model or mannequin and take some digital photos (front, back and side). Video clips are welcome but not necessary.

    “Each year, the contest gets better and better. We are all excited to see the fantastic entries!” said Laura Gawne of Cheap Chic Weddings.

    Official contest rules along with lots of other wedding cost saving tips and information can be found at www.Cheap-Chic-Weddings.com.

    Last year’s grand prize winner Susan Brennan created a playfully sophisticated dress, which was inspired by her love of flowers.

    All photos and video are to be submitted to Cheap Chic Weddings at TPdresscontest@gmail.com by June 1, 2012 at 11 p.m. EST. There is no entry fee. The judging panel at Cheap Chic Weddings will judge the digital photo entries.

    For more information please visit www.Cheap-Chic-Weddings.com

    TV Tonight: Say Yes to the Dress: Bridesmaids

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    The latest season of TLC’s Say Yes to the Dress: Bridesmaids, which premiered last Friday, opened with an episode accurately titled “Maid of Honorzilla.” The episode’s theme is a perfect illustration of why the series will appeal to anyone who likes the wedding train-wreck genre (so well represented by Bridezillas on WE) and also of why, within the burgeoning Say Yes franchise, the show will always be, well, a bridesmaid.

    The format hews closely to that of the original series: wedding party arrives at upscale bridal salon; a voice over points out the impending conflict that is an obstacle to the discovery of the perfect dress; consultants put their heads together to find said dress despite conflict; audience keeps fingers crossed for the bride to say yes (which involves literally uttering the phrase “I’m saying yes”). But whereas the first incarnation, and subsequent bride-centric programming that takes place in different stores or focuses on different kinds of brides, appeals to viewers’ sympathy or sense of romance, the Bridesmaids version is strictly for those who love a good cat-fight. Gone are the heartwarming tales of obstacles conquered—the cancer overcome and the soldiers returned home so sweethearts will be reunited—all of which make the original Say Yes one of the most satisfying silly reality shows on TV today and which explain the success of the show in a glutted wedding-TV market. In their place are a string of friendships ruined by a dress meant to be worn once.

    (READ: Bridesmaids’ Melissa McCarthy’s Hilarious Performance)

    In this premiere episode, viewers meet brides who have brought disaster upon themselves through their choice of a maid of honor. The storyline that gets the most play is that of Meghan, whose friend Jessica demands to wear a different color dress than the ten other bridesmaids and who declares herself the second most important person at the wedding. Grooms are rarely part of the equation here, but that’s enough to cue the ominous music and close-ups of the shocked faces of the others present. The contrast with the other featured story, that of LaToya whose friend’s breasts won’t cooperate with the bride’s vision of the bridesmaid’s look but who isn’t uncooperative enough as a person to merit much attention, illustrates that there’s no room in the show for healthy friendships. The huge wedding parties may be at fault on that count: with only one shopper, there’s time for the show to explain why viewers should care about her but, with a dozen women trying to agree on one dress, it’s just easier to make villains than heroines. With the women on Bridesmaids, the ever-present threat that the bridesmaids will somehow ruin the bride’s big day is not much of a threat at all; when everyone is awful to each other, it’s hard to want that perfect day to be perfect, and when they’re not awful it’s not much fun to watch.

    Of course, friends who are mean to each other are reality show manna. But that mean-spiritedness is not what brings viewers to a Say Yes show. The others under the Say Yes umbrella rely on the emotional roller coasters provoked by shows like Extreme Makeover: Home Edition, not the rubbernecking instinct that makes Real Housewives a hit. Both reality camps are addictive in their own way, but when it comes to a franchise that asks you to root for women who spend a house’s-worth of money on a dress (or who force their friends to fork out the dough) it’s important to leave the half-hour thinking that she deserves it—not that she got what was coming to her.

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    Designer who aims to make sure brides feel like royalty on their big day

    AS an undergraduate, Nicholas Ball was delighted to get the chance to work as an intern at Alexander McQueen’s, the world-famous fashion house which created Catherine Middleton’s wedding dress.

    Sarah Burton, now the creative director, produced a design that Nicholas says was simply fabulous, fashionable and fairytale.

    1. Above and top, Nicholas Ball at the bridal store he runs with his mother, Ruth Gray, the House of Capulet, in Babington Lane, Derby. He designs and makes wedding dresses ndash; a process which takes around six months. Top right, Nicholas at work on a sketch for a gown with lace samples. Below right, Catherine Middleton's gorgeous dress.

      Above and top, Nicholas Ball at the bridal store he runs with his mother, Ruth Gray, the House of Capulet, in Babington Lane, Derby. He designs and makes wedding dresses – a process which takes around six months. Top right, Nicholas at work on a sketch for a gown with lace samples. Below right, Catherine Middleton’s “gorgeous” dress.

    “I thought the dress was gorgeous, quite demure, very Grace Kelly. In fact, Grace Kelly’s wedding dress is my all-time favourite,” revealed Nicholas, as he relaxed at The House of Capulet, the bridal store in Babington Lane, Derby, he runs with his mother, Ruth Gray.

    He says his own designs are quite bold and dramatic but at the same time very feminine. His inspiration comes, in part, from designers such as the late Lee Alexander McQueen and Vera Wang.

    “Yes, Lee’s dresses were flamboyant but the cut was beautiful,” Nicholas said.

    Though he is not tempted to adorn his hand-made gowns with skulls, a favourite of McQueen, Nicholas was delighted when Sarah Burton praised his design for a print featuring a skull as the centre of a flower.

    Nicholas is currently putting the finishing touches to a gown featuring gold silk Duchess satin with pale gold lace and Italian organza.

    “I must admit I seem to have very expensive tastes. I fell in love with some intricate lace. It was divine, so I rang to inquire how much it cost per metre and when they said £500 I was speechless. It was a little out of my price range!

    “Obviously, the quality and quantity of the lace and silks I use reflects in the price of the dresses,” says the designer, whose gowns start from £1,000, with bridesmaids’ dresses starting from £300.

    Providing a bespoke wedding and bridesmaid dress service means he can cater for the growing number of brides-to-be who want to be more experimental.

    He puts it down to Facebook and Twitter, which have made fashion more accessible.

    “I have always wanted to design red carpet gowns, where it’s a woman’s special moment in the spotlight. All eyes are on her,” he said.

    Now the 30-year-old is out to build on his own label, Nicholas Ball at the House of Capulet, alongside the gowns the store stocks including Ellis, D’zage and Phil Collins.

    Even as a youngster he was keen on drawing and was studying for a BTech National Diploma in general art and design when a fashion lecturer spotted his sketchbook drawings.

    “She encouraged me to do a diploma in fashion in a year rather than two years,” he said.

    He applied and was delighted to be offered a place at the prestigious Surrey Institute of Art and Design to study for a BA Hons in fashion.

    “It was while was studying for my degree I did the internship. It was very intimidating at first. It seemed so glamorous to all us interns,” Nicholas said.

    “I just enjoyed discovering what the real world of fashion was like and how it all worked. It was fascinating and exciting.”

    Designer and couturier Lee Alexander McQueen was four times British Designer of the Year and International Designer of the Year.

    “He had a reputation as being a bad boy of fashion but when I met him he was lovely,” says Nicholas.

    “He was planning the opening of his London store and came up with the idea of having pole dancers in the window for the launch. He wanted us interns to create see-through rain coats for the dancers to wear.

    “He came into the studio one day, saw one of the macs, put it on and twirled round the studio laughing and having fun,” says Nicholas.

    He chuckles recalling another incident when castings were being held for the catwalk models and pole dancers.

    “One runway model, at her first professional audition, saw the pole dancers and ran out of the studio in horror. Someone had to chase after her and explain the mix-up.”

    His duties included manning reception as well as scouring London for vintage feather boas and haggling over the costs.

    “Sarah Burton, the head designer, would do initial sketches and we would come up with fabrics, patterns, print designs, and work out where the seams would fall.”

    After university Nicholas designed and sold clubwear online, a million miles away from his dreams of creating red-carpet glamour.

    He reveals how a twist of fate gave him his chance to shine. “My mother went into a store in Derby to buy her wedding dress.

    “She jokes that she went in for a dress and came out with the lot. She found out the owner was selling the business, decided to buy it, and asked me if I would like to help her.”

    A new sign was needed. Nicholas got out his sketchbook and created The House of Capulet.

    Weddings are very much part of family life. Ruth makes wedding cakes and has her own chickens providing free-range eggs for her baking.

    It’s a busy time as the business is moving to larger premises on Babington Lane later this year.

    “I will be able to put my dresses in the window. They’ll be lit up at night to great effect. I will also have more room to display them,” Nicholas said.

    It takes about six months from showing the bride-to-be initial sketches and suggested fabric swatches to the final fitting.

    Nicholas does the sewing, though he hopes to employ a seamstress so he can spend more time designing.

    He is also keen to help the next generation and has two undergraduates from the University of Derby, Emma Henson and Nicola Moody, working with him.

    “I want them to be interested in the whole process and to give them the change to design, for example, a prom dress which could feature in the House of Capulet’s range.”

    Oklahoma Bridal Show Partners With PartyPOP to Offer This Weekend’s Attendees …

    Happy Brides With Free Invitations

    “Great Promotion! Brides need all the help they can get. I highly recommend this to any bridal show producer. Brides were asking for their Free Wedding Invitations at the door!”
    -Wally Martin: Cinderella Bridal Show Producer

    (PRWEB) April 20, 2012

    Oklahoma Bridal Show, A.K.A. OK Bride has produced over thirty-five premier bridal shows in just over ten years. As a member of Bridal Show Producers International (BSPI) OK Bride maintains its reputation as a professional and valuable resource to future brides as well as local wedding businesses. Aside from bridal shows, OK Bride offer brides-to-be the “okBride Rewards Card” designed to give local information, money saving incentives, planning tips, and more. Now the company offers even more value as any bride attending an OK Bridal Show will receive a certificate for completely free wedding invitations. More information can be found online at http://www.okbride.com/bridal-show/spring.htm.

    Bridal Show producers in the United States, Canada and the U.K. have been announcing a milestone in attendance in the months since partnering with PartyPOP’s Free Wedding Invitations Campaign. Brides will be able to receive up to 100 complimentary wedding invitations with matching envelops, designed, printed and shipped at no cost.

    The 2012 campaign was built with the PartyPOP marketing budget. PartyPOP says. “We just think it’s more effective for the brand awareness of Bridal Shows to offer free products to people when they actually need them”. The campaign provides significant savings to couples (who also receive a free custom website). PartyPOP was correct in their projections as there has been notable increase in both attendance for show producers, and invitation orders now that wedding planning season is in full swing.

    About PartyPOP: the largest party, wedding and event planning online network:

    Before the Internet era, the professionals at PartyPOP were successful hands-on party planners and special event producers. For more than a decade PartyPOP has translated 30 years of party planning experience onto the Internet. Millions of vendors are listed on the network consisting of 60+ websites and tens of millions of customers have used the network to plan their parties, weddings and events. PartyPOP also provides party and event related tips, themes and ideas, as well as a free full wedding planning software called Seating Arrangement.

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