Bridal shop, wedding planner opens its doors on the Circle – News

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Bridal shop, wedding planner opens its doors on the Circle

By SAMANTHA GHOLAR

sgholar@newssun.com

SEBRING — Gorgeous gowns line the wall just inside the entrance of Ginibeth Henderson’s new bridal shop in Downtown Sebring. Located at 207 Circle Drive, GB’s Ladies and Men’s Formal Wear is the newest addition to the Sebring Circle business family and Henderson is thrilled to be a part of it all.

GB’s is a full service bridal shop offering essentials for any couple’s big day — wedding gowns to tuxedos, linens to bridesmaids dresses.

Henderson opened her doors a few short weeks ago in the beautiful space just off the Circle. The shop itself feels “homey,” as Henderson described it, and the wide open areas are perfect for big groups or wedding parties in search of attire for the big day.

Henderson, a former state’s attorney’s office employee, stepped away from the security of that job to follow a mission of her heart.

“I feel like this is the way the Lord was leading me. God opens doors you got to step through them and step out on faith,” Henderson said.

Henderson isn’t a newbie to the bridal and wedding planning business. She has worked as a wedding planner for the last 14 years as well as having a full time job.

“I started with a little online place at first now I’m moving on to this,” said Henderson.

The shop and wedding planning are Henderson’s full-time gig now and she plans to go above and beyond for her clients.

“I’ve worked as far away as Fort Pierce and all the way down to Santa Bella Island,” Henderson said.

In total, Henderson has planned nearly 100 weddings, making the shop the logical next step.

Henderson promises to provide full services to clients with some of the best designers in the business. Henderson’s shop is currently the only carrier of Alfred Angelo designs in the county.

“I carry and push the Alfred Angelo dresses. He’s a great designer and the dresses are the best. The best fabrics, the best colors, they are just like the ones brides see in magazines and now they can get them here,” Henderson said.

GB’s also carries Jasmine and Impressions Bridal designs. The shop also carries a variety of prom and special event gowns as well as tuxedos.

“People can come in here and be able to get what they want. I can provide everything. Florists, photographers, I have been doing bridal planning for a long time and I have kept good relationships with many people,” Henderson said.

The goal behind GB’s is to provide affordable, convenient services to the community.

“You have to run your business as a Christian. I realize that people are having a hard time. I carry Alfred Angelo but I also carry the less expensive lines. I want it to be affordable and I want everyone to have a pretty wedding,” Henderson said.

Henderson plans to get the ball rolling on the expansion of her business by adding linen rental and sales in the upstairs section of GB’s. Right now, however, Henderson is focused on providing gowns for any occasion, especially local high school proms.

GB’s has several magazines and catalogs available for clients and customers to view when choosing a special gown. Henderson is able to have customers view their intended purchase in the shop and have the order shipped right to the shop.

Henderson also works closely with a local seamstress to provide any alteration needs.

“I’m here because I want to take the stress away from the bride so that she can enjoy the experience with her loved ones and her family,” Henderson said. “I love meeting new people and providing a service to them, that’s the best part of the job.”

GB’s is open from 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. weekdays and by appointment. Call 873-1858.

Julie Benz Married Rich Orosco in Mexican Theme Wedding

In respect of Orosco’s Mexican heritage and as a nod to Cinco de Mayo, the couple got married on Saturday, May 5 at the historic John Sowden house.



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Julie Benz, the Rita Morgan of Showtime’s “Dexter” is married for the second time. The actress tied the knot to marketing executive Rich Orosco in a Mexican theme wedding on Saturday, May 5 evening. They picked the theme to pay respect to Orosco’s Mexican heritage and Cinco de Mayo.

According to People, the couple got married inside the historic John Sowden house in the Los Feliz neighborhood of Los Angeles. The John Sowden house aka Jaws House is famous for its striking facade, resembling either a Mayan temple or the gaping open mouth of a great white shark.

Benz and Orosco were engaged in June last year. She joked that her dog did not take the news well, tweeting, “One boy who is not happy about the news of my engagement… He thought we were exclusive….” She then invited 20 guests to her bridal shower at the famous Le Cordon Bleu College of Culinary Arts, in Hollywood, CA last month. Since the party’s theme is “Sweet and Spicy”, they had cooking lesson for such menus.

Benz was previously married to actor John Kassir from 1998 to 2007.

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Julie Benz gets married

Julie Benz is a married woman. The 40-year-old actress, who is best known for playing Rita Morgan on Dexter, married her longtime love, marketing executive Rich Orosco, on Saturday in Los Angeles.

Benz, who just recently celebrated her bridal shower by taking her friends, family and bridal party to cooking lessons at Le Cordon Bleu College of Culinary Arts, said “I do” in an evening ceremony that took place at the John Sowden house, which is also known as the Jaws house, People reports.

Benz, who said she was not the “typical bride,” didn’t have a traditional wedding theme. In a nod to both her new husband’s Mexican heritage and the Cinco de Mayo holiday, the wedding had a Mexican theme.

Benz dated Rich Orosco for five years before getting engaged last summer. He had planned a surprise engagement at their home. After proposing with an $80,000, 3-carat Kwiat engagement ring, the couple and their friends celebrated with a “Mexican fiesta engagement party.”

“The proposal was simple and beautiful – and then I was shocked by the pop-up surprise Mexican fiesta engagement party,” she told People at the time, adding, “What girl doesn’t want to be serenaded by a Mariachi band surrounded by close friends and family?”

Saturday’s wedding was Julie Benz’s second trip down the aisle. She was previously married to actor John Kassir from 1998-2007.

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Footie WAG Jessica Lawlor on her wedding plans to Aston Villa star Stephen Ireland

The couple — renowned for spending a fortune on their bling lifestyle — are
planning their big day.

But pretty Jessica, 26, is concerned the £90,000-a-week Aston Villa midfielder
will go over the top and turn it into a scene from the popular reality TV
show.

In the past the Irish footballer has bought a £260,000 customised Bentley with
special red and white leather seats and the words “To Jess Love From
Stephen” stitched into the headrest.

It doesn’t stop there. The entrance hall to their Cheshire mansion has a
£100,000 fish tank, a pool table with “Ireland” written on it and a flash
bar.

Jessica Lawlor

Even the kitchen has diamante lampshades and in the lounge the three gigantic
sofas are studded with crystals.

Upstairs there is a purple velvet-encased TV that rises from a podium at the
end of the bed.

Mum-of-three Jessica admits they were “young and naive” when Stephen, 25,
first started earning mega wages.

She said: “We weren’t used to having money. We were foolish and some of it was
over the top. But we weren’t harming anybody. There was never the intention
to go crazy — but I suppose we did. That would never happen now.

“I will have a bit of bling on my wedding day but I know people will imagine
us wanting a Big Fat Gypsy-style wedding.

Jessica Lawlor

And if Stephen had his way it might be — I could see him flying in singers
from America to go on a stage and it ending up like a concert that you could
charge £100 a ticket for.

“Part of me thinks we should run away and do it on a beach somewhere with
just our closest friends and family.

“At the end of the day I just want to get married to the man I love.”

Both Jessica and Stephen were brought up in Irish Catholic working-class
families and fell for each other after a friend introduced them.

She happily took on his son and daughter from a previous relationship —
Joshua, seven, and Jessica, five — who live with the couple and their son
Jacob, three. Jessica said: “When we first met we couldn’t afford the things
we have now.

“We didn’t have designer clothes and flash cars. But three years ago Stephen
had his contract with Manchester City renewed and we were young and went a
bit daft.”

Jessica Lawlor

First on the list was the kids’ play room — which they don’t regret.

But that was swiftly followed by a £90,000 black Range Rover and a £100,000
Audi R8. He rounded off his fleet with a Lamborghini and a Porsche Cayenne.

The couple are now much more sensible with money — and Jessica even hunts for
bargains in supermarkets and Top Shop. She said: “Last week I was in the
Co-Op and they had chocolate Mini Eggs cakes at half price because it was
just after Easter — so I bought six boxes.

“I look for a bargain just like anybody else. I see tops in Harvey Nichols for
£300 but I just couldn’t justify spending that.

“I know some players’ partners shop all day and blow thousands but I still
look for bargains and my only big treat is designer shoes — which I only get
on special occasions.”

Jessica Lawlor

Jessica revealed Stephen also has an obsession for designer Christian
Louboutin’s men’s shoe range — and even has a “sparkly” pair.

She added: “I’m still trying to get him to stop indulging.

“He is really generous with other people too and and he’s forever offering to
pick up the bill for everybody when we’re out. That is what I love about him
— he is generous, fun, romantic and spontaneous. He makes me laugh every
single day.”

The couple got engaged after Jessica suffered a broken leg and shoulder in a
near-fatal car crash last year. The scare also made her determined to have a
career.

Jessica Lawlor

Now she has landed a tongue-in-cheek role in WAG! The Musical, which starts
next month in Walthamstow, East London.

Jessica said: “I’ll be away from home so Stephen will be a child minder for
the month. I am going to miss them all so much but Stephen is a brilliant
dad.

“I want to make him and the kids proud and I am going to rehearse really hard
to make sure I know all my lines perfectly.”

But she added: “If this isn’t the start of a fantastic acting career I won’t
moan. I know I am lucky.

“And I have my wedding to look forward to. I really can’t wait.”

Stephen Ireland

j.atkinson@the-sun.co.uk

Brad’s $10million Wedding

He’s completely blown the wedding budget.

According to reports, Brad Pitt has got a bit overexcited with his wedding plans to Angelina Jolie.

The actor has spent millions to make sure the big day is perfect.

We’re not sure we could spend $10million (£6.1million) even if we tried, but Brad’s managed to go all out – and he hasn’t even walked down the aisle yet.

Angelina Jolie - Brad Pitt - Golden Globes 01.12Ange doesn’t seem to have had a say in the whole shebang

The pair are reportedly getting hitched this summer at a purpose-built chapel at their home in the South of France. A source tells Grazia: “Brad’s been doing extensive renovation on the house and is using a specialist in chateau restoration.

“He’s spent over $10 million already. Now he’s offering hefty bonuses to workers to complete it by summer. He’s even trying to organise an aeroplane landing site in the grounds for guests to come in by private jet – but that’s proving rather tricky, what with permits and no-fly zones.”

Wowsers. Only the best for Ms Jolie, hey (who by the way, has already been married twice before, the lucky devil).

The source added: “Brad’s been asking all the locals if they’ll be able to source produce from the local area for the reception. It’s certainly going to be a moment in local history.

“Brad’s been tasting and looking up French dishes for weeks. He wants the perfect menu and, of course, the perfect wine to accompany it. That is all going to be locally sourced, too.”

He has also asked Angelina’s brother, James Haven, to officiate the ceremony as minister.

The source added: “Brad thought it would be a nice touch to ask James to conduct the ceremony.”

Umm… what about the invites, dress, flowers, bridesmaids and music?

It’s like a bad episode of Don’t Tell The Bride.

By Rebecca Martin


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Julie Benz, Dexter Star, Marries in LA

Julie Benz Marries in Los Angeles | Julie Benz

Julie Benz and Rich Orosco

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Actress Julie Benz married Rich Orosco on Saturday, her rep confirms to PEOPLE.

The couple tied the knot at 6 p.m. at the historic John Sowden house in the Los Feliz neighborhood of Los Angeles. The wedding featured a Mexican theme, in a nod to Cinco de Mayo and to the groom, a marketing executive, who is of Mexican heritage.

The house itself is known as the Jaws House, given that its striking facade, which also has been compared to a Mayan temple, looks like the gaping open mouth of a great white shark.

Engaged since last June, the former Dexter star, 40, met Orosco five years ago, her rep confirmed to PEOPLE at the time the engagement was announced.

Orosco, 39, popped the question with a customized Kwiat cushion-cut diamond and platinum engagement ring – complete with a diamond frame and milgrain edge band – in the backyard of the home they share in L.A.

“It was absolutely perfect,” Benz told PEOPLE.

• Reporting by PERNILLA CEDENHEIM and MARISA LAUDADIO



Wallflowers need not apply

For something different on your special day, be a little adventurous and try some of the looks seen at the recent New York Bridal Fashion Week Spring 2013.

THE term we’re used to is ‘blushing bride’, but what if we take that concept and turn it on its head? Forget the demure beauty of the virtuous wife-to-be, this is the 21st century after all – let’s talk about a statement-making bride (virtuestill- intact to be sure). You know the one – she’s the bride who knows what she wants, and better yet, she knows what works on her. She trusts her fashion instincts and she’s not about to let convention dictate her special day. If you’re not that person, don’t worry – here are some of the trends from the New York Bridal Fashion Week Spring 2013 to help you up your hot bride quotient.

Bring on the colour

Let’s face it, not everyone looks good in white. Sure, there are many different kinds of white – pure white, off-white, dove, eggshell, ivor y, champagne and ecru amongst many others – but sometimes this colour can end up washing out your complexion and that’s hardly what you need on your big day. Take a cue from bridal designer heavyweight Vera Wang who showed this sea son that the brighter the colour, the bette r! Oxblood red was THE colour of the season, and this fits Chinese brides to a T, seeing how red is the traditional colour for prosperity and luck.

But even if you aren’t Chinese, who says red isn’t the colour for yo u? Or any other colour? As with white, the same rule ap plies. Pick out a colour and sha de that compliments your skin tone – not too loud that it will drown you or too soft that it doesn’t make you stand out. If you’re nervous about going too bold, stick to beautiful and cool pastel shades like mint, lavender, celadon, robin’s-egg blue or blush for that extra depth. But if you’re really adamant about being a traditional bride in white, go with a colourful accessory like a ribbon, sash, hairpiece, buttons, tulle skirting, shoes or a sewn-in detail that will shine through.

Hollywood Siren

Vintage has been a huge trend over the last few years but we’re now seeing a penchant for sexy vintage. In fact, nothing screams sensuality more than old Hollywood glamour. Think Lana Turner, Grace Kelly, Elizabeth Taylor and Marilyn Monroe. Get the id ea? These sultry sirens didn’t show a lot of skin (well, ok, maybe Marilyn!) but they certainly turned on the charm with oodles of sex appeal.

Perhaps it’s to do with their slinky lingerieinspired gowns, or the very tactile sensuousness of wearing fur, but I think their attraction goes deeper than that – this look is more than the dress, it’s the attitude. Plunging necklines, unforgiving materials, sleek silhouettes and striking hair and makeup requires a certain confidence. If you can’t tick all of the above, there’s no reason why you can’t do a softer version of this look. Check out Badgely Mishka’s glamourous satin numbers, my fave designer Marchesa’s asymmetrical corset sheath dress, Oscar de la Renta’s high slit sheath or Amsale’s halter neck sheaths for inspiration and start designing that dream dress!

Play to your strengths (or lengths)

If you love your shoulders…then show them! That’s right, you heard me. If there’s one part of your body that’s your best asset, choose or design a dress that will play up this feature. Firstly, make sure you know which part of your body flatters you the most. If your calves are the sexiest thing about you, why not go short with a cocktail dres s style? Or if you’re worried about dressing inappropriately for the ceremony but want t o let loose at the reception, try to incorporate a convertible long skirt that can be taken off at the party like one of Cocoe Voci’s 2013 short dresses.

While a wedding dress still ought to be rather ‘modest’, there are also different ways of directing attention to said area without baring all. Make like Octavia Spencer at the 2012 Oscars with her custom hand-beaded Tadashi Shoji dress which streamlined her silhouette and made her waist the focus of the dress. And if you really want people to talk, channel Carolina Herrera by going for a sharp and st ylish suit – feminine but edgy!

Face Off

Unlike the usual fashion weeks, Bridal Fashion Week doesn’t really come out with a whole lot of fashion- forward looks. Most bridal hair and makeup are usually glammedup versions of your daily selves, but there has been a trend over the past few years towards a more natural feel. In the end though, it really depends on the tone of your ceremony and your own personality.

There are some stunning wedding makeup colour combinations and hairstyles that can leave your guests breathless – in a good way, that is! For a black-tie wedding, try the glamourous pairing of bonecoloured eye shadow, terracotta cheeks and complete the look with cherry-red lipstick. For a softer, sultrier visage, go with smoky gray eyes, peach cheeks and nude lips while less is more with shimmery beige eyes, pink cheeks and winestained lips – perfect for a fresh, modern and unfussy garden wedding.

But if you want a little more drama, go for a chic, unexpected twist on the classic cat eye by using indigo liner complete with rosy cheeks and pale pink lips.

Sleek and chic hairstyles like the classic ballerina bun, chignon or French pleat are perfect for formal occasions, but like bridal makeup, most brides are going towards more natural styles. Soft and romantic styles are in, with loose (side-swept) updos taking the cake for being modern and sophisticated yet relaxed. Braids have also been a big thing these last couple of years – think Berenice Bejo from The Artist, while retro sets are perfect for the vintage bride and the ontrend high-rise quiff adds a dash of playfulness to any bride.

Whatever you choose to do, I’ll leave you with some clas sic words from Coco Chanel: “A girl should be two things – classy and fabulous!”

The billion-dollar wedding planner

In between brokering multi-billion-dollar boardroom deals, Mr Ong Chao Choon sheds his power suits for running gear to go on 40-km runs as many as five times a week.

His love for ultra-running – where running your standard marathons are just the training, not the end-goal – even took him to the Gobi desert in 2010 to complete in a seven-day, 250-km footrace.

But, although a sportsman since youth (he played rugby for Raffles Institution), the 49-year-old lets on that he only picked up endurance running 10 years ago, at an age “when you have more patience”. And it’s taught him a thing or two about life.

During his first two marathon races, he suffered agonising cramps despite training religiously. “Then a friend gave me a tip. ‘Why don’t you try walking through drinking stations?’ … So at each (of the 21) stations, I stopped, walked, finished the drink and ran again.

“This time, I finished the whole race, no cramps. And I did it in 4 hours and 40 minutes,” he says proudly, over a healthy meal of mostly-steamed dim sum at Yan Ting restaurant. “The moral of the story is, you have to stop and slow down in order to last the race. It’s not about how fast you get to the barnyard, but whether you reach the end game.”

OF COURTSHIPS, MATCHMAKERS AND WEDDINGS

When it comes to end-games, Mr Ong has helped to seal the deal on some of the most high-profiles mergers and acquisitions (MA) in Singapore’s corporate history – such as SingTel’s US$8.4-billion (S$10.5-million) acquisition of Australian telco Optus, Dubai Drydock’s US$1.6-billion acquisition of Labroy Marine, and Natsteel’s US$400-million takeover by Ong Beng Seng’s 98 Holdings.

He joined PricewaterhouseCoopers as a fresh graduate in 1987, and today is its advisory leader, in addition to leading the firm’s Asia-Pacific and Singapore Transactions Practice team, which provides a chain of services pertaining to MA such as strategy, due diligence and post-deal advisory. Clients include Temasek Holdings, the Government Investment Corporation of Singapore, Bain Capital and ST Telemedia.

An accountant by training, Mr Ong spent the first 10 years of his career in the audit department before starting MA work in 1997, just when the Asian financial crisis went into full swing.

Ever-ready with a colourful and incisive metaphor over the course of our two-hour lunch, Mr Ong, a father of four, says the easiest way to understand the process of corporate MA is to see it in terms of a marriage.

There’s the “courtship” (the sounding-out period and negotiation process) and “wedding” (the forging of a successful deal). “Investment bankers and corporate finance guys are like the matchmakers – we (due diligence) are the guys that check out the bride or groom of the other party, their background and stuff,” he says.

What’s more “like matchmakers”, the investment bankers typically get paid on a “success fee” basis. “They only get ang pows when the wedding is done. The rest of us doing structuring and due diligence, we get paid on time cost. That’s important so that I would be impartial about reporting what I find. I must tell you the truth, with pimples and all, and it’s up to you to decide whether you want to go ahead with the marriage.”

BUILDING THAT RELATIONSHIP

These days Mr Ong’s responsibility spans the whole MA process. “If a client wants to acquire, we’ll help you find a potential target. Or if you want an investor, or to sell out, we’ll help you find a buyer.”

Sounding out a party’s potential interest at the initial stage may be as simple as a meeting over coffee or a phone call. Contrary to popular perception, the negotiation process rarely takes place over a meal, which is an occasion reserved more for relationship building.

“Otherwise, I’d be very fat,” quips Mr Ong, who cites SingTel’s Optus purchase as the deal he is proudest of.

While there is no running away from numbers-crunching – “understanding the story behind the numbers”, in his words – what makes or breaks a deal are relationships. “I mean, if someone approaches you and asks you to sell your company, but you don’t know this person at all and you don’t feel comfortable, why would tell that someone you are selling your company?”

Building relationships is something you do constantly – through “your friends from school. Guys you meet in the army. People you have a beer with, and my former clients who move on to other jobs. It could even be my kids’ football game where I meet another parent. It is relationships and it is not just confined to work.”

WHEN THINGS GOT PHYSICAL

None of this precludes the inevitable tensions that arise in the thick of negotiations, when “nitty gritty” details such as the terms of the agreement are being haggled over.

He recounts an incident when “someone got shoved”. It was a transaction he was working on, although he was not at the scene. “I only heard about it … (but) I was quite shocked. I got a call from my client who said ‘guess what happened?’”

While he stresses that this episode happened over a particularly long negotiation process and is an exception rather than the norm, it also underscores the importance of building trust between parties. “The best negotiators are those who make sure they build the relationship and the friendliness first, because in any situation, it’s always better to laugh and disagree than to frown and get angry.”

That particular deal eventually went through, says Mr Ong, because he reckoned the two involved in the scuffle were junior representatives rather than the principles from each side. “If the two CEOs start doing that, then it’s the end, right?”

It is why chief executives typically only get involved in negotiations when a commitment seems in sight. The bulk of the process – from initial interest and courtship, to thrashing out the details of a signed deal (which can take five months or more) – is conducted by representatives in the company’s MA or business development department. “It’s not different from state-to-state negotiations,” he says.

UNTIL DEATH DO US PART

Describing the last day of deal-making – when pen is put to paper – as the “first day of the marriage”, Mr Ong says one area the industry has neglected in the past, and is only now starting to pay attention to, is what happens after the deal.

“People tend not to plan for the marriage. A lot of effort is spent planning for the wedding, to get to the point where I sign the agreement and give you the money. ‘Here’s the shares. Good luck to you.’ But that’s where the real work starts.”

One example, he says, is the issue of managing employees of an acquired company who might be insecure about their new bosses, or the uncertainty of the company’s customers and suppliers over continuity. “It’s no different from having in-laws.”

This is where his post-deal advisers come in to provide consulting on optimising synergies of the merged companies, including planning effective communication and retention packages.

“What makes a good marriage is not the courting and the wedding but how you sustain the relationship after the wedding. You might court for one year, three years and five years but the marriage is going to (last) 20, 30, 40 years until death do us part, right?”

DAD’S ON THE CLOCK

Mr Ong’s own marriage vows were pledged to a former PwC colleague he met in Australia while he was on secondment there in the late 1980s.

His wife Catherine, an Australian-Chinese who traversed the Gobi sand dunes with him, moved to Singapore in 1991 and is now a homemaker busy with their children, two older boys and two younger girls aged 11 to 17.

It has been challenging finding time to spend with his children. “You have two hours in a day, half an hour for each kid. That is why it is actually impossible to have both parents working in a big family.”

One way in which he is bonding with them is through rugby – he occasionally coaches his younger son, who now attends St Joseph’s Institution International with his elder brother, and has started his own rugby school team, says Mr Ong proudly.