Apple iPad Compatibility Introduced by TopTablePlanner Seating Plan Software – Virtual

Leeds, United Kingdom, June 08, 2012 –(PR.com)– TopTablePlanner is pleased to be able to announce that the latest version of its highly successful online seating planning tool is now completely compatible with the very latest in the iPad tablet series. This update has been introduced to provide even more convenience from an online service already used by wedding planners and venue coordinators in more than seventy countries worldwide.

With this latest update it is now possible for anyone who needs to create a seating plan for events such as weddings to do so using almost any platform. To date TopTablePlanner has been widely used on both PCs and Macs, but with this latest release it can also be used on iPad, touch screen tablet PCs and touch screen mobile phones such as Apple’s iPhone. This makes TopTablePlanner unique in terms of offering both convenience and cross-platform versatility.

TopTablePlanner still offers the reassurance of having all seating plans saved and stored on its online server, allowing users to be able to access and edit their seating plans from anywhere in the world, at any time, and using almost any computer-based device. This means that wedding plans can be drawn up online at home using a PC or Mac, and then reviewed, shared and edited whilst on the move, or in meetings with venue coordinators or wedding planners using an iPad, tablet PC or smartphone. This new update to TopTablePlanner’s online seating planning service is likely to be welcomed by those in the wedding planning business.

The online service from TopTablePlanner which has been available since 2007 remains one of the easiest seating planning tools, and with iPad compatibility couples planning their wedding can now design and edit their seating plans together at home, whilst also enabling their wedding planner to review the seating plan, and make any necessary changes on their behalf. Although there are other drag-and-drop seating plan tools on the internet, most of these use Flash™ or are not compatible with touchscreen devices meaning that they cannot be used on iPads, iPhones and many other tablet PCs and mobile phones. This update by TopTablePlanner reflects the fact that more people today are using iPads and similar technology, especially within the field of wedding planning and venue coordination.

Because TopTablePlanner is entirely online, accessible using any popular web browser, there is nothing to download, and no software to install. Unlike with many other seating planning tools, TopTablePlanner can be accessed immediately using any device which has access to the internet, including PCs, Macs, iPads, tablet PCs, iPhones and other touchscreen smartphones. As there is no software to install or download, there is also no risk of losing seating plans or other data, since everything is automatically saved online, and immediately available from anywhere in the world, using any web enabled device. This adds a great deal of convenience in situations where multiple parties may need to collaborate on developing a seating plan for an event such as a wedding.

Managing Director, Adam Leyton, commented: “Since many wedding planners and venue coordinators now regularly use an iPad as a useful tool, the new compatibility which TopTablePlanner offers will be a very welcome update.”

Getting started with TopTablePlanner is very simple and straightforward, with users able to simply import their existing guest list, and then place the names of their guests onto the tables available, using an intuitive drag and drop system. Draft plans and completed seating plans can also be printed from anywhere in the world if both an Internet connection and an AirPrint compatible printer are available. Being able to conveniently print high-quality seating plans and have these displayed at the venue or handed out to catering staff and venue coordinators is a great advantage, but TopTablePlanner offers a number of additional features such as the ability to print out place name cards which can be placed on each table.

Research shows that at events such as weddings the vast majority of guests prefer having a seating plan rather than a free for all arrangement, since this often significantly improves their enjoyment of the event. Creating a seating plan enables guests with particular requirements to be seated most appropriately, and helps all guests to be able to relax and enjoy the occasion in a way the Bride and Groom will want them to. TopTablePlanner hopes that their latest update which includes full compatibility with iPads, iPhones, tablet PCs and smart phones will make the process of creating seating plans even more convenient.

Chasing Treasure Sets up Online Gift Idea Center featuring Men’s Jewelry Boxes …

The online jewelry box retailer’s website has a special section which makes it easy for shoppers to choose popular men’s jewelry boxes and watch holders for important occasions like Father’s Day and Anniversaries.

Spokane, WA (PRWEB) June 08, 2012

“Online shoppers deserve to have tools that will make their shopping experience easy and that is why we set up our new online gift idea center featuring popular jewelry boxes for men and watch holders,” said Karen Mollison.

Mollison is managing partner for Chasing Treasure, an online firm specializing in retail sales of jewelry boxes and jewelry storage boxes. Based in Spokane, Chasing Treasure offers several hundred jewelry boxes ranging from small travel jewelry organizers to floor standing jewelry armoires.

“Our online gift center makes it possible for customers to shop according to the recipient, gift occasion and the type of item,” Mollison said.

“Our most popular items and most useful gift ideas are easily accessible using this new interface. For example if you are looking for a Father’s Day gift, you just press the Fathers link and you will see items such as mens jewelry boxes, valet trays and watch holders,” she continued.

Speaking of Father’s Day gift ideas, Mollison announced that two of Chasing Treasure’s best selling men’s jewelry boxes have been marked down for a limited time and they feature free engraved name plates too.

The two featured valet boxes with free personalization that are on sale now at Chasing Treasure are a modern ebony watch valet box and an executive jewelry valet box in okume wood with maple edges.

The ebony watch valet box has five watch pillows under the lid which can be removed to open up to a 2″ x 4″ compartment for other accessories. It also contains valet compartments that can store cuff links and jewelry or end of the day items such as cell phones, iPods, wallets, coins and keys.

The executive jewelry valet box has storage not only for jewelry and rings but also for four watches, iPod, phone or wallet. “It even has a sewn pouch that is an excellent solution for collar stays, money clips, or even important documents that require safekeeping,” Mollison said.

“We think that our new gift idea center, the special items on sale, and our large collection of mens jewelry boxes and watch holders will be appreciated by shoppers who are looking for thoughtful Father’s Day, wedding or anniversary gifts for men this season,” Mollison concluded.

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How To Dress for Any Wedding

It’s that time of the year again: Time for summer blockbusters, bikini shopping sprees and wedding invitations. I understand that it is a rough time, but do not let the missing ring on your left hand distract you from your other goals. Put down the Ben Jerry’s, turn off Steel Magnolias and get out of the fetal position… wedding season is not a time to start feeling sorry for yourself. Just because you are missing a +1, does not mean you are a failure in life. Call your gubby and get a nice stretch in, because we are going shopping.

Summer wedding attire can be a bit tricky because the traditional venues (such as banquet halls) are often overlooked and events move from 6pm to noon, adding an extra reason to ask “WTF am I supposed to wear?” Then throw in phrases such as “Black tie optional” and “Garden wedding,” and you’ll vow to never put your friends through the agony of your own wedding. So before we dive into wedding attire specifics, I’m going to break down the basic dress codes that you might see on your invitation.

WHITE TIE: Are you sure you can afford the gift that this shindig requires? This is the formal of the formalist. You should be in a floor-length gown with your finest Neil Lane jewels and your date must dust off the tuxedo he bought for the Royal Wedding viewing party — yes, it’s fancy.

BLACK TIE: This is another chance for you to wear a gown if that’s your jam but you could also get away with a fancy cocktail dress. Don’t let the options confuse you into dressing down — men will still be in tuxedos and bow-ties.

BLACK TIE OPTIONAL/COCKTAIL: Your male guest should be in a full suit and tie and you have the option to wear a chic cocktail dress, fierce pants suit or floor-length dress.

CASUAL: You can get away with day dresses or a skirt and top combo. Nothing with too much bling, avoid up-dos and absolutely no denim.

FESTIVE: This can get tricky, as it depends on the theme of the wedding or time of year. Pay close attention to what the invitation says, you don’t want to show up in your favorite Preen if everyone else is dressed for a Cinco de Mayo themed reception.

Kind of bossy right? But that invitation guidance will save you several phone calls to the bride asking what you should wear and embarrassment if you show up in a gown and everyone else is wearing a day dress. There are of course some other basic rules for wear if you are a wedding guest:

Don’t wear white (le duh). A lot of wedding pros would tell you to avoid shades of white as well — that means ivory, cream, off-white, etc; I, however, feel that these are great summer shades and are appropriate accent colors for a wedding.

Read the invitation. We’ve covered that. Pay attention.

Break in your shoes. If you plan on dancing at the reception, make sure your shoes are worn in before-hand. Don’t take them off — only bridesmaids have that privilege. (And there is no reason to accept those gift basket flip flops as a consolation prize — have some self respect).

Don’t be that girl. You know the one I’m talking about. She couldn’t decide if she wanted to bare curves, legs, or cleavage so she chose “all of the above.” People will talk about you and kids don’t need to see that.

Keep the bright colors and sparkle to a minimum. As much as we all want to be a walking Vogue editorial whenever we get the chance (it’s fashion, I get it) this is the bride’s moment, so it’s not cool to take the attention away from her and onto your new hot pink Matthew Williamson outfit. What I am trying to say is… look good but not too good.

Don’t let all the rules and the fact that you are going to another wedding single bum you out — you can still have fun with your look. For summer I would avoid black at all costs (even if it is an evening black tie event… snooze). Rock pastel color combos and don’t forget the layers… chances are you’ll be attending the reception and weather from day-to-night can be hard to predict.

Wedding dress designers cut loose from ‘meringues’ to offer chic styling

A year after Sarah Burton’s wedding dress for Kate Middleton became one of the most copied gowns on the planet, clusters of young fashion designers are turning to bridal wear with a mission to make the fusty satin-and-lace sector cool.


Richard Nicoll bridal gown
Richard Nicoll wedding dress for Topshop.

The British designer Richard Nicoll has launched a bridal range with Topshop aimed, he says, at more fashion-conscious brides. Far from the traditional “meringue” with endless layers of skirting, the range includes delicate slipdresses, lace in “T-shirt dress” shapes and tight, body-conscious dresses with bustier detailing.

“I liked the idea of making a modern, affordable alternative to meringue culture,” the designer said.

Others on a similar crusade include the designers Sergio Rossi and Charlotte Olympia, who have launched bridal shoe ranges.


Sophia Kokosalaki bridal gown
Sophia Kokosalaki bridal gown.

Sophia Kokosalaki, the London-based Greek designer, debuted her Greek goddess-inspired, draped wedding dresses for Net-a-Porter’s online bridal shop this year. Their success has inspired a bigger range, which will go on sale in November.

“I thought there wasn’t much on offer for the contemporary bride,” said Kokosalaki. “By this I mean a modern woman that doesn’t want to feel overwhelmed by her dress and has a very chic approach to how she would like to be dressed for the day.”

Charlotte Dellal, the designer behind Charlotte Olympia, was inspired by her own wedding to create trademark platforms strewn with lovehearts, leopard print and red lips. “I was struck by the limited range [of bridal shoes available],” she said. “Not everyone wants to wear peep-toe court shoes in white. I thought there was a gap in the market.”

Despite a 50% divorce rate, marriages between 30- to 34-year-olds are up 6% year-on-year in the UK, creating a growing market for more cutting-edge bridal gowns.

“The younger woman is far more fashion-savvy than an earlier generation,” said Caroline Burstein, founder of Browns Bride, the fashion boutique dedicated to weddings. “She doesn’t accept that the bridal shop knows better, she wants to express who she is by the dress she is buying.”

Holli Rogers, fashion director of Net-A-Porter, attributed the success of the site’s wedding shop, launched in 2009, to such consumers. “Although there is still definitely a place for the traditional white wedding dress,” she said, “we find our customers are more often looking for newness and seek out the fashion-forward pieces in our edit.”

The average spend on a wedding dress in the UK is £1,000.

“A bride who is looking to the catwalks for her dress is thinking beyond a meringue,” said Kay Barron, fashion features director of Harper’s Bazaar. “For the majority of women their wedding day is the only time that they are willing to pay a lot for just one dress. It is good business sense for designers to capitalise on that.”

Both Dellal and Kokosalaki also point out that their pieces – not so immediately identifiable as bridal – can also be worn on other occasions.

The trend away from bridezillas in meringues has also been evident at recent celebrity weddings, not usually renowned for their understated style. Last month Facebook’s founder, Mark Zuckerberg, married his long-term partner, Priscilla Chan, who wore a simple lace slip design by Claire Pettibone (in a surprise ceremony that guests initially thought was a party to celebrate Chan’s graduation).

In April, the actor Carey Mulligan and musician Marcus Mumford held their wedding in a Somerset farmhouse. While the bride, her mother and the bridesmaids all wore Prada, Mulligan reportedly accessorised her dress with Wellington boots.

Although Drew Barrymore harked back to a different era by selling images to People magazine of her wedding to the art consultant Will Kopelman – including shots of the custom-made Chanel dress – younger stars have a different attitude. Keira Knightley announced her recent engagement to the Klaxons’ keyboard player, James Righton, with a short statement from her agent to the press rather than a Posh and Beck-style photocall. Justin Timberlake’s fiancée, Jessica Biel, recently said that “marriage wouldn’t change anything” between them.

Whether this understated mood will trickle down to the average British wedding and crush the meringue for good remains to be seen. Yet Kokosalaki believes a different take on the ceremony is appreciated by many of the brides who buy her dresses.

“The customer base crosses a huge range, from younger women who cannot visualise themselves in a cake, to more mature women who just want to look elegant and sophisticated on the day.”

Not that traditional pieces will ever completely disappear. “Many brides might start with the idea of wanting a cooler dress, but peer pressure from mothers or friends tend to change that,” said Barron.

“It’s great that there’s now an alternative,” added Burstein, “but most girls still want something traditional. Twenty years down the road you don’t want to look like you’ve dressed up for a fashion shoot. It’s about more than just the dress, really.”

Chasing Treasure Sets up Online Gift Idea Center featuring Men’s Jewelry Boxes … – Virtual

The online jewelry box retailer’s website has a special section which makes it easy for shoppers to choose popular men’s jewelry boxes and watch holders for important occasions like Father’s Day and Anniversaries.

Spokane, WA (PRWEB) June 08, 2012

“Online shoppers deserve to have tools that will make their shopping experience easy and that is why we set up our new online gift idea center featuring popular jewelry boxes for men and watch holders,” said Karen Mollison.

Mollison is managing partner for Chasing Treasure, an online firm specializing in retail sales of jewelry boxes and jewelry storage boxes. Based in Spokane, Chasing Treasure offers several hundred jewelry boxes ranging from small travel jewelry organizers to floor standing jewelry armoires.

“Our online gift center makes it possible for customers to shop according to the recipient, gift occasion and the type of item,” Mollison said.

“Our most popular items and most useful gift ideas are easily accessible using this new interface. For example if you are looking for a Father’s Day gift, you just press the Fathers link and you will see items such as mens jewelry boxes, valet trays and watch holders,” she continued.

Speaking of Father’s Day gift ideas, Mollison announced that two of Chasing Treasure’s best selling men’s jewelry boxes have been marked down for a limited time and they feature free engraved name plates too.

The two featured valet boxes with free personalization that are on sale now at Chasing Treasure are a modern ebony watch valet box and an executive jewelry valet box in okume wood with maple edges.

The ebony watch valet box has five watch pillows under the lid which can be removed to open up to a 2″ x 4″ compartment for other accessories. It also contains valet compartments that can store cuff links and jewelry or end of the day items such as cell phones, iPods, wallets, coins and keys.

The executive jewelry valet box has storage not only for jewelry and rings but also for four watches, iPod, phone or wallet. “It even has a sewn pouch that is an excellent solution for collar stays, money clips, or even important documents that require safekeeping,” Mollison said.

“We think that our new gift idea center, the special items on sale, and our large collection of mens jewelry boxes and watch holders will be appreciated by shoppers who are looking for thoughtful Father’s Day, wedding or anniversary gifts for men this season,” Mollison concluded.

For the original version on PRWeb visit: http://www.prweb.com/releases/prweb2012/6/prweb9586775.htm

Shaggy visitor crashes wedding

Shaggy visitor crashes wedding

Neal Erickson and his blushing bride, Anna Schmalz, pose for wedding pictures last weekend at Ridgway State Park. Across the Uncompahgre River, on right, a 300-pound bear, who likely smelled the food on the reception table, takes in the festivities.



Neal Erickson and his blushing bride, Anna Schmalz, pose for wedding pictures last weekend at Ridgway State Park. Across the Uncompahgre River, on right, a 300-pound bear, who likely smelled the food on the reception table, takes in the festivities.

For the record, Anna Schmalz and Neal Erickson did not invite the furry, 300-pound guest to their wedding.

But given that pie and a savory beef brisket were served, it may come as no surprise that a black bear was enticed to the event last weekend at Ridgway State Park.

“We were fighting against chipmunks that wouldn’t stay off the pie table, and we thought that was going to be our big problem,” Mark Erickson said.

Thankfully, no one was hurt, including the bear, said Mark and Linda Erickson, the groom’s parents, and Marianne Schmalz, the bride’s mother.

The parents credited park rangers, including one who was a wedding guest, for handling the situation well.

“Our guest that was a ranger really kept people back,” said Marianne, who lives in Montrose. The ranger also told guests the bear appeared to be 3 years old and weigh nearly 300 pounds.

Suspicions that a bear might attend the wedding were raised the day before the ceremony during set-up when the groom was told a bear was in the park area.

The bear turned up first on the opposite side of the Uncompahgre River just “watching us” near the pavilion on the wedding day, Marianne said.

At that time, a few rangers were notified. It was just in time because the bear eventually made its way across the river toward the parking lot by the pavilion where all the people—and food—were located.

“(Neal and Anna) started to do their first dance, then, all of a sudden, people starting rushing outside the pavilion to see the bear,” Linda said.

It was the first time the bride had seen a bear in the wild, despite living in Colorado since she was a child, Marianne said. It also was the first time the Ericksons, who live in Seattle, had seen a wild bear despite living in Montrose for years.

The memories — first dance, first kiss as a married couple, first bear sighting — made for an eventful wedding day, and now the couple is honeymooning in Jamaica, Linda said.

To top it off, the couple was served chocolate-flavored, brown Teddy Grahams, prompting Linda to joke she didn’t know her son was “having a theme wedding.”

Shifts In Tradition: Brides And Grooms Skip Traditional Favors And Honor …


SYRACUSE, N.Y., June 7, 2012 /PRNewswire via COMTEX/ –
When it comes to wedding favors, sugared almonds and monogrammed trinkets are starting to become a thing of the past – instead, many couples are honoring their guests with gifts to charity. To encourage this large-hearted trend, Bella Figura (
www.bellafigura.com ) offers complimentary letterpress or foil stamped favor cards to any customer whose wedding favors are a charitable donation. “We’ve found that now more than ever, brides and grooms are turning the tradition of wedding favors into an opportunity to support the causes they care deeply about. Charitable favors are an inspiring testament to a couple’s love, and we wanted to recognize couples who make that decision,” says Bella Figura owner Debbie Urbanski.

In addition to complimentary favor cards, Bella Figura provides expert etiquette and wording advice. Here are Bella Figura’s tips for creating the perfect charitable favor cards:

Provide a website where guests can find more information about the cause you’re supporting.

Keep text minimal and light-hearted. Mention the charity, express love and gratitude for your guests’ support, and finish with a heartfelt signature.

If the cause you’re supporting isn’t widely known, a brief description about the organization can be included on the card.

For a cohesive look, your favor cards can pick up on the style and colors of your wedding invitations.

“The number of couples making meaningful, philanthropic gifts in lieu of favors is growing stronger each year, and we’re thrilled to be able to encourage that trend,” says Urbanski.

About Bella FiguraBella Figura is an essential wedding invitation line that offers an inspired variety of over 300+ invitation designs, along with superior service and artisan green printing. Bella Figura practices and embraces environmental printing, making the print shop an ideal fit for brides planning a green wedding. Design styles include traditional and vintage wedding invitations, beach and destination styles, retro and modern wedding invitations, and everything in between, including signature calligraphy designs. Bella Figura offers one of the largest collections of foil stamped and letterpress wedding invitations in the world, and prints on an exclusive reclaimed cotton paper made just for them by a historic European paper mill. Find Bella Figura online or at select retailers worldwide.

Contact: Erica Henriksen+1-866-699-6040press@bellafigura.com

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Wedding season: Make it stop already! – The Tribune

Wedding planning has just about pushed Grace Kim over the edge. Already she’s bought an expensive dress, organized myriad events, scouted locations, mulled color schemes, agonized over tiny details and played referee between between warring factions of friends.

And she’s not even the one getting married.

Of course a wedding is a bride and groom’s special day. But you know who deserves a standing ovation after the first dance? Everyone else. The parents and siblings and bridesmaids and groomsmen and friends who let this blessed event take over their lives for a year, dominating every conversation, sapping precious vacation days and vacuuming up the last few pennies from their emergency fund.

“I’m exhausted,” Kim said last week. “And it’s only May!”

Kim, a 27-year-old marketing manager who grew up in Fairfax and now lives in New York City, attended her first wedding of the year in April. She has others in June and August, plus two in September. Along the way, she’s accrued the horror stories only a four-time bridesmaid can tell — in one wedding, she’ll be forced to wear a flapper dress; for another she’ll have to show up five days early, per the bride’s request.

And because Kim has experience in event planning, she’s become the go-to strategist for her engaged friends, spending one to two hours a day consulting with the brides. Kim, who’s in a relationship but not ready to get married, estimates that already this year she’s spent $2,700 on other people’s weddings and will probably spend around $6,000 by the end of 2012.

“When you become a bridesmaid or any part of the wedding, people think it’s an honor — but you quickly realize that it’s not,” she says. “There’s a lot of work involved that’s not really divulged when you get into it.”

It used to be that a wedding took place over the course of an afternoon, or maybe an evening. Now it stretches over months or even years, beginning with engagement parties, followed by bridal showers, bachelor/bachelorette weekends, ladies luncheons, golf tournaments, welcome parties and rehearsal dinners. And then, if everyone is still standing — and the bride and groom are still speaking to each other — we get to have a wedding.

Carol Wallace, author of “All Dressed in White: The Irresistible Rise of the American Wedding,” says part of the problem is that weddings are cumulative: “Once something gets added, it rarely gets dropped.” Thus, whoever decided it was necessary to host a brunch the morning after a wedding doomed everyone else who would ever marry to follow suit. (We should find that couple and send them the bill.)

Wallace says it was the late 19th century when “the idea of wedding as pageant came into being.” With each ensuing generation new rituals were added. The average engagement now lasts over a year, so there’s plenty of time to conjure up new events — an announcement party, perhaps, or a series of themed wedding showers. “There’s always a drive toward excess,” Wallace says.

Last year, Washington area wedding planner Debbie Berkelhammer’s stepson got married to a woman whose own mother is also a wedding planner. The conditions were just right for a perfect storm of nuptial extravagance. Berkelhammer says there were two engagement parties, four wedding showers, separate bachelorette and bachelor parties, a family rehearsal dinner and a meet-and-greet for all the guests.

“There’s a lot of stress,” says Berkelhammer, who’s been planning nuptials since 1998. “And there definitely seems to be . . . multiple events now.”

Judith Martin, better known as Miss Manners, and her daughter, Jacobina, are fighting an uphill battle to stem the tide of wedding lunacy. Together they co-wrote “Miss Manners’ Guide to a Surprisingly Dignified Wedding,” in which they argue that engagement parties are a farce, shower gifts should be simple tokens rather than $400 toasters, and that registries (or, as Jacobina calls them, “shopping lists”) should be wiped from the face of the Earth.

“We had hoped that it hit its saturation point,” Jacobina says of the ever-increasing wedding fervor. “Then I heard about a friend going to a destination bachelorette party.”

The friend was asked to be a bridesmaid even though she wasn’t particularly close with the bride. Eventually the showers and obligations got to be too much. After seeking Jacobina’s guidance, she bowed out of the wedding.

“And the bride just found a replacement. She was completely unfazed and said, ‘Your dress is about the same size as this other girl, so I’ll just give it to her,’ ” Jacobina says. “It goes with our theory that it’s becoming show business, with people cast in parts. It’s everyone’s Oscar night.”

It’s not just lady-folk who get sucked up into the wedding hurricane, says Mike Arnot, founder of GroomGroove, a Web site for grooms and their entourages. Best man obligations, he says, amount to more than any guy ever anticipates. “There’s a whole grocery list of duties,” he says. “Not the least of which is making a wedding speech in front of 150 people who are staring at you.” The best man also has to organize the bachelor party, coordinate the schedules of a dozen friends, be the groom’s errand boy and stay sober — at least through the toast.

But it could be worse. “Know when a guy will grumble?” Arnot says. “When it’s his girlfriend who’s a bridesmaid and he gets dragged along to everything. We’re happy to do a favor for one of our buddies. Are we happy to do a favor for our girlfriend’s friend? Ehhhh.”

Not everyone is grumbling. Traci Melshenker, the 26-year-old author of the blog Confessions of a Professional Bridesmaid, says she sees wedding-party duty as a rite of passage for people in their 20s and early 30s. She hasn’t been able to save any money for the future, but she doesn’t regret being in her friends’ weddings. And now that it’s her turn to get married, she’s trying to learn from her experiences as a bridesmaid: She won’t pick a dress her attendants don’t like or dictate what shoes they should wear. And after getting engaged two months ago, she threw a shower for her future bridesmaids — all 20 of them.

To maintain some semblance of sanity, Jacobina Martin recommends that people pick and choose which wedding-related events to attend and be honest with engaged friends about their limitations.

But in the end, she says, responsibility rests with the couple. “Some people think, ‘Oh well, work people want to give me a shower, and my family wants to give me a shower. So, it’s not my fault, people want to do this for me.’

“I know it’s hard to resist, but resist,” Martin says. “You don’t have to have a million things.”

Sure, you might not walk away with a $500 espresso machine or six matching sets of Egyptian cotton sheets, but you know what? You might be able to keep your friends.

Sometimes Martin hears about “small, charming weddings that didn’t create enemies,” she says. “I’m hoping that will be the new trend.”

No hassles at all

Anjola Adeogun needs a marquee for his upcoming wedding event. He just flew in from abroad some weeks before his wedding. He had the idea of a perfect, glamorous wedding on his mind even before he boarded the aircraft to meet his fiancée of ten years. He is still preoccupied with his wedding plans, thinking the Nigeria he left behind years back is still the same. He is amazed when his bride-to-be told him about event management companies in the country.

The concept of event management has taken a new turn and the days of faulty and poor public address system, ugly looking tents, and poor general service are long over. Event owners no longer have to worry about the comfort of their guests and, more often than not, they now arrive at party venues to find that everything is in place. From mere supply of ice blocks, canopies and chairs some years ago, some proactive individuals have gone ahead to float event management companies that seem to be growing out of the necessity to meet the demands of people who want a replica of high profile events they witness abroad.

Zapphires Events, owned by Funke Bucknor-Obruthe, and Elizabeth R, managed by Ibidunni Ituah-Ighodalo, are two top event management companies that handle ‘A’ list events. Most event management companies combine public relations with event management, and they are committed to fulfilling clients’ needs and expectations through unsurpassed services and creative thinking. They strive to deliver to clients, sponsors, and attendees of every event good quality service; and so they take time to get to know clients’ culture and goals.

To be a top event planner is about uncanny ability to creatively think outside the box.

Ituah-Ighodalo is one of the most sought-after event planners in the country. She is known for her ability to do the unusual and deliver creative event ideas. She entered the public eye when she won the Miss Lux Beauty Queen title in 1998. She later took a short timeout from the popular scene to graduate from the University of Lagos and hone her event management skills. She came back with a bang when she launched her event planning firm, Elizabeth R. Since then, Ibidun has planned and packaged many high profile events with dazzling results and consistently receives rave reviews from clients and guests.

Funke Bucknor of Zapphaire Events says planning an event is all about creativity and devising new ways to do things. “We are known for our ability to deliver top-notch events on a wide range of budgets. We consider your budget before we decide on what suits your taste. Planning events is all about talent, creativity, and doing what makes the clients happy.”

Of course, there are still some drawbacks, but the colour, hype and near-perfection most event managers fight to attain these days tell more of their desire to create a one-stop-shop for event management in Nigeria. The emphasis is bearing the host’s stress and leaving his guests with satisfaction.

Wunmi Osinyemi is the director of Visk ‘N’ Surprises, which has been in the business of wedding planning for about four years now. She explains that there are two packages: partial and complete. The complete package entails getting everything needed for the wedding done, from the wedding dress to the food and drinks that will be served. The partial package, on the other hand, has to do with taking care of a part of the planning, which could be getting the hall decorated or catering for guests’ welfare like food, drink, sitting arrangement, or any other part of the event.

“Regardless of the type of wedding you choose to have, your wedding dress should be something you love and feel good wearing. We usually consult a wedding dress designer when choosing wedding dress to ensure the best fit, structure and design for the wedding we are planning,” she explains.

Planning for the venue is as important as the wedding dress for the bride and groom, observes Osinyemi. Planning a wedding always begins when the question of venue is popped. “Most people know the type of wedding they would like to have, but when you add another person’s dreams, aspirations and religious feelings, it can require some discussion. The couple is an important part of planning a wedding, and whether it’s the parents of the bride or the groom or a wedding planner, the wishes of the couple have to be taken into account. This is especially true of the type of ceremony that the couple decides on,” she says.

According to Banke Oluronbi, a wedding planner, determining whether the wedding will be a religious, civil or other type of ceremony will play a part in determining the venue. “The couple usually has an idea of where they want to have the wedding,” she says. “Our own is to grant their wish. Our job as the wedding planner will be to contact the venue and verify all information with regard to booking it for the day in question if that is included in the agreement.”

As interesting as their job seems, wedding planners stand a high risk of running into debt if the budget is not properly managed or if the couple decides to withdraw their contract mid-way into the preparation. “The amount I charge depends on the taste of the couple. For instance, it could be N2 million or more depending on what they want. Before I start working on the project at all, I charge a client of N200,000. It’s a commitment fee that is non-refundable if the contract is withdrawn. If it is not, then that will be the deposit for the service charge,” explains Osinyemi.

What the likes of Osinyemi find uncontrollable at times about their trade is the fact that most parents of the bride and groom influence decisions which they are supposed to leave to the wedding planner. Many people consult wedding planners for many reasons, chief among them being that they find it difficult most times to get a proper place for their wedding reception. In addition, they also want to avoid the stress of catering to guests before and during the wedding.

“Some of the questions couple asks are: Where do we get our wedding reception ideas? How do we decide between a formal dinner and a buffet? Do we really want to create a seating chart for 200 people or more? Do we want to embrace the pomp and the circumstance of the receiving line? The answer to that is a simple one. You look to your own life, the life of your soon-to-be spouse and you find a happy middle ground that satisfies you both,” says Oluronbi.

Wedding reception ideas come from mixing both the drama and the fantasy in couples’ lives. Therefore, they must think of a romantic setting that they would like to share with their guests and create it. It therefore means creating a beautiful outdoor setting with tents and paper lanterns that mix both natural and quiet illuminations as well as dramatic shadows.

In addition, the array of world-class events which Nigeria has hosted in recent times speaks of a bourgeoning industry that can compete favourably internationally. For Coca Cola to mount the tallest Christmas Tree in Lagos, first-ever in Africa, and also host high profile dignitaries as it did for the festive celebration in cities such as New York, London and Paris means there was a reputable event manager. Same also goes for world-class events such as ‘Big Brother Africa’, ‘Star Mega Jam’, ‘Smirnoff Ice’, ‘Johnny Walker’, among other international events that debuted in the country.

Today, it is a common practice to mount big outdoor canopies firmly on befitting spaces, with almost all aspects of the event contracted out to those who undertake other people’s stress. Etuk Umbo, managing director of Premium Outdoor, a Lagos-based event management company, says the host only needs to pay the service fees and relax because efficient and timely delivery is the selling point of event management. With the many outfits breaking into the business everyday, the MD notes that stiff competition is now driving the business.

“With half a million naira and above, we can be at your service. Unlike before, you can as well get something satisfactory with the budding event managers that flood the town these days. But one thing you will gain at the end of the day is successful outing, which is the ultimate in any event whatsoever.”

Given Nigeria’s passion for outstanding parties, concerts, among other social outings, event management is growing. Umbo says there is no better time than now for all creative minds to help Nigeria to take its rightful place in the scheme of event management.

Umbo, who left his booming engineering profession for events management, says you not only fete the public, but also derive joy and earn a living by helping in coordinating people’s lives, easing out their difficulties and the stress of event planning. “In any event, the guest is the king, and the joy for me at the end of any event is that my clients come calling to show their delight over the guests’ satisfaction.”

Events, according to him, are now stress-free with little input from the host. “Just tell us what you want, where, how, and provide us with our fees, you will be surprised by the success at the end of the event.” However, one of the challenges that organisers of these events are faced with is that of getting equipment that match the fame of their international clients, guests, and even artistes and celebrities billed to perform at such events.

But there seems to be a significant relief on such challenges. Now events can hold anywhere the client wants it – in the desert, on the sea, hinterland, and even in unimaginable places as long as the right event manager with the right equipment is hired.